Thread #7 - What goes down, might come up.

[25yearsmlc]

Agree guys. 1st step to stopping the neediness was turning off my FB account. That is done. That has been the trigger of all my insecurities and it is removed. As of now, all I truly know is that this guy is FB stalking W.

The reason I backtrack is out of worry for our kids. No doubt about that...probably something to bring up with IC.

I don't think the reason you backSLIDE is out of worry for the kids. Or at least it's not the main reason.

You admit you have only been in r's with women who don't treat you well, correct? And you have a terrifying fear of being alone or not married to this cruel cold miserable woman.

if you are half the man I think you are, you ought to be running to the L's office.(God help me for saying that but THIS MARRIAGE is a real bummer for a very nice sounding guy...IDK- maybe you're a great liar or ugly as sin but I don't think so...) You are just afraid and it's paralyzed you for 3 years now.


If I have to bring up the R with this guy again, I will use starsky's exact words.

And it will be accompianied by D papers.

I don't think OM is important enough to bring up but you know how I feel. I think if there's anything beyond an hour of REAL THOUGHT that goes into it, I'd be surprised.

Why? Maybe your w is hot and gorgeous, and maybe when she's NOT around you, she's a fun partying friendly happy active woman...but ....really?


So she has no skills that pay well AND has 2 small kids. Um, you think she's that great a catch for a younger man to have a real r with?

sorry, I don't see it..

You are going to be fine, Navy. Really & truly. I don't disagree w/Starsky's advice so much as think OM's not worth it. At this time neither is your w. She is not a good partner for you Navy.

No more wordy letters, please. She probably felt it was an "ordeal" or "chore" to read through. Sorry but it's just way way way too long.

I skimmed it twice before I FORCED myself to read it all. Sorry, but that says something.

I cannot wait for you to get on the other side of this lake b/c you are going to be a man only a fool would leave

if you keep your strength up...it's like working out. Being a strong man.

make sense?
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