i know if a bug walked by while i was telling my H something, i would IMMEDIATELY stop talking about it and focus on the bug.
also, if i were just becoming a "friend" on fb with someone, i would probably look at all their photos and "like" them as a way of being friendly. he may have ulterior motives but it could all be innocent.
In this day and age...
not sure what that^^ even means DLS...
The bug thing I totally relate to. I'm a nut when it comes to bugs and I DO drop all conversations to destroy or remove one--meaning to have H destroy or remove one...It's neurotic, I know. But it's way down my list of what I want to work on, if you KWIM.
as for the FB stuff, I have gone thru maybe 10 guy friend's and 20 girlfriends' pictures and clicked on them...why?
BECAUSE THEY'RE INTERESTING and I KNOW I WON"T "CHEAT" by clicking, so it doesn't even cross MY mind that there's something off about it.
Flirtatious comments are one thing but "liking" the FB photos? Big deal.
Navy, you have REALLY HUGE issues to work out w/your wife. She's NOT kind or loving and she's a miserable person to be around.
She is using you. Don't fuel her negatives by focusing on the minutiae that this FB crap is...
it's NOT important enough at all and when you have the BIG stuff that you two have going on, no sex, no affection, NOT wanting to work on the marriage THAT is where you need to focus. This other stuff is like ink that a squid emits to get away.
Don't let the ink get in your eye and lose sight of what really matters here. Pick those battles wisely,
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