DB Bootcamp - Vets and Newbies

[jks]

I know I have always hoped for some advice from 25 directly aimed towards my sitch. Hoping to get a chance here??

H has been in a PA since January with a long time co-worker of 6 years who he feels like he's "in love" with. He's openly stated to me that he knows he's messed up and his family means more to him than anything else but he just can't seem to let her go because he still feels so strongly for her.

He's still very cordial and nice to me and I only contact him for business matters only regarding our home and children. He openly spends all of his time with OW and she is invited to all family events and is around my kids whenever H has them. My kids just recently expressed to me that they have seen them kiss and it makes them sad.

So, he is allowing OW to become closer to my children and his family and no one seems to see anything wrong with this. He says he doesn't have it in him to file for D. He thinks there is still hope for us.

Advice? Sorry this might have been too much.