you sound like you are really in a great place in your mind. and yes the experience of just meeting someone - it can give you a lot of confidence in yourself and the possibilities for the future.
and the funny thing we learn through our journey here is that we are healed and have grown enough where jumping into something is not necessary any longer. we are happy to wait for the right time place and person
glad you had such a great time
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
Well when you leave enough windows open flies come in!
haha
H texted me a few more times about how he's moving the last of his stuff, had to rent a truck, no one's helping him, do I want this or that because he doesn't have room.
I am going to close my eyes and stay in my bubble. Life is good. Meeting up with friends later tonight.
Also though.....DB Coach Cheryl would love that he is right in his pattern...spend time with GF..check in with Brit.
He upset me a little bit because I don't really care about him having difficulty moving his stuff I'm surely not suggesting any advice or jumping in with info or help.
Cheryl noticed and I had too that after he spends a but of time with his GF like they go away or something he initiates communication. When they went away for that weekend the next morning at 8:20 he texted and asked if he could come over. It's funny because when I GAL I never think about how he's doing. She thinks this means he wants to come home.
TBH I don't give a crap what it means. I'm so done with over analyzing his behaviour.
Wow Brit, I am really amazed with the strength you are radiating now. I cant imagine being there, but I hope I am one day very soon. Keep it going.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
it's funny how we reach that fed-upness state all of a sudden. it's like enough of this crap already.
i think it's really part of the detachment process. suddenly they are not so all-important now and as we find ourselves more and our self-confidence grows?
i don't know, sometimes i wonder if i'm just full of it myself. but i'm noticing that a certain boldness comes out with the fed up feeling - not rashness, that i think they really pick up on.
keep at it - bask in the feeling!
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
I love your posts on your thread, lately, Brit. You are doing so great. I can feel your strength and I'm loving it!
I think I need Cheryl in my life.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
