Haven't checked in with you for ages, just been catching up on your thread, BTW that post from Breakdown is not me - almost the same DB name as me except minus the Bill LOL
It's so easy to get frustrated with our spouses, because we can't get closure on any of this. We want things to be good again in the M and to move on from all the DB dancing, because life is too short, but DB makes us analyse things about ourselves and our R's to try & solve our issues long term whether we work it out or not with our spouses.
We all need to blow some steam from time to time, it's not the end of the world. Don't feel bad about telling your H to F*%* himself, everyone needs to be told that once in a while - he'll get over it!!
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13