oh, zig! when i read this, my arms went up in the air as if a touchdown had been scored!
i know you have to be cautious of any expectations, though.
but, i think you're absolutely right; when we reach the place where we're looking forward to our future, with our without them, they sense it and come forward!
i got a text today from my H with my pet name he used to call me!
this just goes to show that not all DBer's should follow a set way of handling their respective sitches. when it says do a 180, you have to know what you're doing a 180 from.
you made me smile today! (that must have been SOME night...!)
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing