"I'm finding it really tough to stay positive and hopeful especially in light of biased but well meaning advice from friends and family and the regular injections of "I'm done" which I seem to be getting from my wife."
firstly, stop listening to freinds and family. they are only hearing your side of the sitch and saying what they think you need to hear based on that. they will usually tell you to take the easy way out but that way is not "easy", either.
you have to decide what you want for yourself.
secondly, stop snooping. now you see why people on here tell you this.
her emails to friends or family will be the same; her side of the story. and, she will try to appear as if it all means nothing to her and she's coping well.
have you read the DB and DR books? if so, go back and review.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
