Just, at this moment you must wear your business hat. Make financial decisions that you will not regret in the future. If you are flexible you will regret it later on. I have had those feelings of pilty myself but I have put them in a box and on a shelf for now. Yes it is selfish but that is divorce. Good luck my friend


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden