i can't answer the second question but i can't understand "tough love" that would get one's wife's car clamped.

how do you think she would feel about you should you do that to her and know the outcome of such an action? would it bring her closer to you?

if you are looking for her to "come back", that's not an action i would take. there's nothing wrong with being "nice". no one on here advocates being a doormat but being nice is just the way we should treat everyone, especially, some one we profess to love.

just my opinion.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing