AND my 180 this week will be not checking in with him. At all. The last time he took a long trip like this I insisted he let me know when he got somewhere and check in along the way home (hey, there were bad storms and he had one of the children with him)! I'm sure he will be on Facebook in the next few days, so I will know where he is, but I do not plan to text or call unless he does first. (Again this stems back to a car accident 13 years ago. When someone does not show up when they say they will, especially when these are people who are usually on time, I get freaked out, because bad things can and do actually happen). But I am past that now with my H.
M:39 H:39 S/15, S/11 (both adopted in 2004, my step-nephews, now our kids) M10, T13 Multiple bombs. Latest one 5/4/12, our 10th anniversary. Still living together and sharing a bed up until 7/18/12.