Rachael, Good for you for not waiting on him! Sometimes you have to do a 180 and just leave them in the dust and go to functions w/o them.
You've laid your cards on the table and like you said, the ball is now in his court. Let's see if he figure out what he needs to do.
Now, step back, sit quietly and watch the show from the curb. Time will tell as to what he'll do. Now is the time to turn the focus back on to you and your life.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
