Thanks bustingout. As you probably know, sometimes we get so caught up in the sitch that we don’t necessary know if we are getting better, there just such minor changes. As Accuray said in a previous post, it’s important for us to recognize some of these changes with the way we feel.

On another note, I still question if my W has had an affair, I have no proof and it does no good to worry about it. I think there’s a good chance she has but who knows. Since she took her ring off and decided to separate and go to bars every now and then, I just feel it’s a matter of time before there’s OM in the sitch. In a way I am preparing myself for the worst because it just feels and seems imminent.

Once again, I have no control over that so I need to just forge ahead! Thanks to all who have read my thread and contributed input. It means a lot.