To use DB terms giving more love, and trying to be fun is just going down another cheese less tunnel.
It's true that many newbies go dark too quickly but Navy has been at this for 2 years. It will take her hitting rock bottom with her depression for her to snap out of it.
If you use Starsky's words she will most likely leave, and that's not necessarily bad. She escape goats Navy at every opportunity so she can avoid the painfulness of working on herself.
If she leaves she'll have no one else to blame.
Look I don't have any kids, but I don't think you two are exactly building a good environment for them. You don't want your kids thinking this is normal do you?
