Originally Posted By: sgctxok
Ok--so everyone who wants to pair up with an oldtimer post:


1) Just a few sentence background
2) what you think you need most help with (staying on track, brainstorming solutions, setting goals, etc)


I get this and support it. My only query or concern is when the LBSer does not know what they need.

OR thinks they do know but the "oldtimer" (um, can we get another term here???)

thinks not.

Like when we see a super co-dependent person who wants to know "the secret" to getting their WAS back but is not realizing THEY have to get their own lives back...first...

but that's not what they want to hear. OR the LBSer who has taken a lot of bad treatment, and still is--

or who has a major anger problem and still does, and just vents & vents,and stays stuck.

What then? Can we team up or alternate partners?

I'm just spitballing here so don't misunderstand. I think it's a good idea. Just tossing out others.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

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