I would bring this up with your W only if it's a deal-breaker for you, other wise I would never bring it up to your W again. She knows your feelings and if she wants to have a child she will bring it up.

Love yer for thee person she is, not at the potential mother of your children.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss