See I wasnt too far off from thinking that maybe he lost his cc's... He was robbed.... So thinking out of the box here is good.. Hang in there and Its time to practice your patience that you have learned by waiting on him.. Hang in there girl and fight the good fight.
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
He just left for work. Last night he was exhausted and we went to bed right after he finished reading a story to our D. He hugged me tight and somewhere around 3 am woke up and .
This morning he got up at 7 am, fixed both of us breakfast and got ready for work. As he was leaving he hugged me tight and said "I love you. Thank you. We'll talk tonight but don't worry, we are going to fix this." I told him if he had time today to spend it with D, who had suffered a lot and he asked, what she had done. I only said that she refused to leave the house because she feared Daddy might come back when she was not there. He said he would and left.
So my real update is going to have to wait a bit longer.
Yes, Pam, he called just about when you logged off.
BTW, hi Bill, nice to hear from you again. I loved your W's letter in your thread. Send her my regards.
And HO, it looks like we may go to Port Aransas with the Hs and the kids after all...
It is very early yet, but I am so elated...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
Congrats girl...Hang in there.... I am so happy for you... Keep up the dbing..Your bing efforts have just started..
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
Serve yourself up some patience and some more patience.
Practice being QUIET.
Put all fears, anxiety, concerns away.
DO NOT THINK, TALK, SPEAK about OW in ANY WAY. Do not put her in the house with you, on the phone with you. Do NOT bring her up. If H brings her up, listen... without blame.
Act as if everything in wonderful.
Put Opts needs and wants aside. Make this all about H for now.
No demands regarding OW, finances, future, etc.
Everytime you get anxious or frustrated, remember 72 hours ago... not knowing when, where, why about H and then think about NOW... H is HOME. H came HOME to ME.
Don't ASSUME anything... neither positive or negative.
Have NO expectations.
Remember in your heart he said "we are going to fix this."
YOU give me SUCH HOPE!!
You are a strong woman, you have been through HELL, you can and will do this... but let him lead, show him you trust him to lead.
I am so proud of you that you waited this out!
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
