DB Bootcamp - Vets and Newbies

[bustingout]

1) Just a few sentence background
2) what you think you need most help with (staying on track, brainstorming solutions, setting goals, etc)

1. H basically declared he was unhappy in late 2009 early 2010.( A 'friendly' R with current OW was already in place). By June 2010 he said he felt he was too far gone Sept 2010 H' s father passes away, H moves out immediately - lived with OW before finding his own place. We plodded on, I begged, pursued, etc. H continued to deny anything but friends with OW but whole time in EA.

April 2012 he says he is done. Two weeks later in PA with OW.

H basically living in another town for work. OW with him


2. Need help with solutions, detaching, being friendly but distant. Am basically
in NC now except for brief contact re: kids, and other matters ( house, finances).


Thank you for this!!!