Thread #7 - What goes down, might come up.

[zig]

i really like what you wrote here, dbmod.

i think too many of us go to the lrt mode way too early because we truly don't appreciate how long it takes the WAS to go through their stuff.

focusing our time on having fun with them, with no expectations is really the key and that's what we should be focusing on - not the OP's and what their presence means

Do some nice things together

can you give some more advice on how to accomplish this, when so many WAS's are very resistant to the idea of doing anything fun together. they are so busy being focused on the OP that any suggestion of doing something together makes them withdraw.

i think all of us could use some advice and tips on how to initiate doing fun things in the face of all that resistance

thanks - i'm glad i came across this post
zig