ajm--

Thanks for the advice. It's good to know that I'm possibly on the right path. I'm definitely not going to be dating anyone anytime soon. I'm doing pretty well at not inviting him to anything or trying to pursue, I think.

When he does call and want to talk or spend time with me, I'm there for him, but I do wonder if that's the right thing to do. If I were less available, maybe he would be forced to choose whether he wants me in his life instead of just having me around when he decides to. This is the part that is really confusing me.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13