Got a question for anyone In dealing with MLC, if a h wants to go out with his friends two or 3 times a week like mine has been doing like sailing and going to the bar,should I just let him go and say nothing? If he asks if its okay with me should I say yeah? I don't think it's okay. I want to say no it is not. I feel he is running away. I also feel he doesn't want to be alone with me sometimes.
Last week we went out to dinner and he wanted to know if any of the kids were around and wanted to go.He's been asking that every time we go to dinner together. In the past we would go and have time by ourselves. When I told him no he said "oh the hell with it, you and I will just go and I'll even buy you dessert because you've been a good girl" I said "What!?" That statement pissed me off. He said "oh I'm just kidding" but I think he said it because earlier he told me since I have been calm and no big emotions that it helped him. After dinner he wanted to get me home quick so he could meet his friends at the bar.
We have a graduation party tonight and I don't think he is going to go anywhere after that tonight but I'm thinkin he might tomorrow.
