Well, she's on the right path of mlc. They can't seem to provide the right documentation when requested. My xh did the same thing. She's not going to be happy that she's got to step up to the plate and provide the correct documentation.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.