So before I left for San Diego & while I was packing the car W shows up. She wanted to k ow if D was there. Told her no, she was still at daycare. She said she would pick her up. I told her I was picking her up on the way out of town, plus they were still on a field trip to the local pool. Weird, she had wanted to change the schedule with D because she was going to go out with friends after work. Now she shows up. Told her she could go when I went to pick her up to say goodbye( daycare is in the neighborhood ). She said no. She already said goodbye. Whatever. Then why was she home?

Made a huge mistake & asked about R. She said she still is in the same state of mind. Asked her if she had met someone. She said yes. Met a guy at the bar that she talks to now. Asked about it. She said they're friends and that she's allowed to have friends. I told her of course she is but what do you think he wants. She said probably to get in her pants. I told her that she's having an EA to try and replace me. And I asked her how she thought our D would feel about that. I know I shouldn't have said anything. Time for me to just leave her alone now. Let her figure out things. And hopefully see that the grass isn't greener. Glad me & D our on this trip. Let her be alone for the weekend. And we can get away from all of that mess.


M:40
W:28
D:7
Married: 5
Together: 10
Separated: 4/1/2012