Getting ready to leave for my reunion with childhood friends. I'm really looking forward to it. I have my camera ready to get some shots of the old town too. It is beautiful out. I just dropped S15 at work and S18 left for work too. Told them I would see them tomorrow afternoon, and they are both good
I have been making some progress and very excited about it. Staying out of my STBX's head as much as possible is proving to be very good for me. I was easily dragged in and the more I practice staying out, the easier it gets.
When I told him the dates for our vacation, just to let him know the kids would be unavailable from xx to xx, I didn't get a response for 24 hours. I didn't expect one honestly. But when it came it was guilt. I didn't play into it at all. He said "glad to know the boys will at least get a vacation this year. I am still researching, and most likely can only afford to do a long weekend if that. I will let you know the dates"
Before my instinct would have been to explain or defend my trip, expense,etc.
Instead I simply replied "ok just let me know the dates as soon as you have them" and left it at that.
It's little but GO ME!
One of my friends sent me a bracelet this week and I have been wearing it daily. It has a little guardian angel on it and is engraved with "My dear friend may your day be filled with blessings , and may you always have the courage to spread your wings and fly" I absolutely LOVE it! Will wear it every day!
Ok time to pack up my car now! Have a wonderful weekend everyone!!
