Agree guys. 1st step to stopping the neediness was turning off my FB account. That is done. That has been the trigger of all my insecurities and it is removed. As of now, all I truly know is that this guy is FB stalking W.

The reason I backtrack is out of worry for our kids. No doubt about that...probably something to bring up with IC.

If I have to bring up the R with this guy again, I will use starsky's exact words.

And it will be accompianied by D papers.

BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.