WAY too many words here, WAY too much drama. Somehow, you've got to get your arms around this, and stop coming off as needy/clingy/jealous/supplicating (huge turn-off, just ask the women here), and get to a point of "Hey babe, look -- you can be friends with whomever you want; I'm just saying that I've decided that I'm no longer willing to live in a marriage where my wife has inappropriate friendships with other men. Your choice completely -- I'll be fine either way."
