I think having him see the kids in a place outside of your home will be good for you.
Originally Posted By: veroprado
Then I said, What if the day you walked out I had parked outside your mom's house pregnant and with S4? What would you have done? You would have told me to go home!! Well I'm not like that!
How was that helpful? Do you feel better letting him know your are hurting?
IMO - your conversations are being lead by anger/hurt.
Anger is an necessary phase to letting go. It often leads to healing and growth....
...but it can be a very ugly stage as well.
Do you feel like your are in that phase? If so, How do you want to handle it?
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
