Husband Filed for Divorce Today

[Jessica M.]

Good points GreatWhite North and Breakdown. Thank you.

I'm trying to consult an atty. I had Legal Services (a pro-bono group in our area) review my case but they could not take on any more cases. On Monday I am going to call my next option. I don't think spousal support is an option in Indiana but I could be wrong. He has agreed to pay my car off (we have about a year on it) and keep me on car insurance (we will agree on a length just haven't done it yet). He is also taking our medical debt and the rest of our attorneys fee from the bankrupcy. The only thing he said he would not take was my student loans. That was always a sore spot with us.

Trying not to pursue. The intimacy thing was his initiative and I caved in. Not going to do that again. I have pulled away and for the most part let him call us. It's hard because sometimes I don't know if he's coming over before work to see our daughter and I want to know so I call. It'll be a lot different once I start working next week.

I'm definitely trying to focus in on my issues and work on them. This is still so fresh and my emotions catch up with me sometimes.

I am enjoying the fact that I get to prove that I can be independent from him and not rely fulling on him. He seems to think that I can't do things on my own. I have never lived by myself before.

Definitely some things to think about.

Thank you.