True-

I became a better DBer--helped my own relationships when I started giving advice, because I realized I wasn't following my own advice, which was an echo of what Michele had told me.


Picking teams---

Do what you want--post it here. It might be easier if the newbie makes a request.....but any pair up is good.

IN FACT--it would be good if 2 oldtimer paired up to keep each other accountable about their own relationship. However, I found once I started giving advice, I stopped asking for it...and tried to pay attention on my own. I'm not sure that's a great idea. WE ALL NEED HELP ALL THE TIME. Whether we seek it or not....we are all still growing, or should be.


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001