When he says that his marriage was dead? That he still wanted to be with his wife, BUT that it had to be with a new marriage, new boundaries, guidelines and commitment.
As if he doesn't know me...
Yes THAT is what I meant.
Very good point to clarify what I tried to say.
I sometimes forget that you would have read my whole thread to know that is what I did.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am