I have been following your sitch and you seem to be progressing well.
I just want to echo gwn re: facebook. GET OFF. I actually had to deactivate my account to get me to stop looking. And you know what? In this case, ignorance is bliss. We have ENOuGH to deal with as it is...
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home