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The distinction is important because we can control how we act, where we are, who we engage with and emotionally invest in. We cannot, however, control others. That's why it is misguided for us to try to teach anyone to do anything. They (or life) will need to teach themselves, based on the consequences of their actions.


Important distinction.

Vero, boundaries are to protect you.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss