The two best things you can do for yourself right now are:
1. stop wondering about why he says or does anything and accept it for what it is, and 2. GET OFF FACEBOOK!
I don't know of one single instance here where facecrack was of any help at all. If I recall correctly, every single time it comes up there is some kind of grief or angst associated. It boggles my mind why people persist in doing things that frustrate their lives.
And stop feeling bad for standing up for yourself. It's not selfish to do so, financially or otherwise. And if he wants you to let him know where you're going, just do it. Don't attach "so that you don't get angry at me" or "so that you don't have to worry". It's co-dependent behavior. If you have to say anything, just say "OK, I can do that."
Sorry if that was harsh.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
