She came over last night and things were OK. Son was upset with the game and got loud about refs and the play. Wife said a few things to tell him to settle down and he talked back to her. I put a stop to him disrespecting her.
I could tell she was upset with him along with the terrible game. She got up and said she was leaving. Told her goodnight.
She later texted that S was not going to talk to her that way again, that I should stop him from being disrespectful. I told her we would all three discuss it later when emotions settled down.
She texted me thanks for letting her watch the game, and that she wasn't mad at me. She also said I could come see her apartment this weekend. I said I would at least like to know where she was located in case there was ever a problem. Texted goodnight.
I am reading Divorce Remedy again. The last time was 8 yrs ago. I am reading about small changes, goals, etc. I feel like I need to continue to distance myself for a while with less contact, before there would be any attempt to work on things. I know things are too raw to discuss with any real outcome. I see her being nice to me in ways and am confused as to whether she's just being nice or if it is her being nice to me, if that makes sense.
Like last night, I am only trying to be positive and happy. There was really no mention of anything about our situation. Hopefully, the pressure is slowly being released.
Again, I really appreciate the feedback. Sometimes I know the answer but it makes sense when I see it in a response. If helps to know if I'm at least going in the right direction even though I'm not exactly on the path all the time.....
