Well then again...while I was out for a 4 mile run last night after Midnight, my S texted me: "I just saw something i should never c. i saw OM on top of my mom...
Unfortunately that text came in about 35 minutes before I got home from my run. However, I offered to pick my S up and he accepted. I called my W. Very short conversation. I told her I was coming to pick up S. He is telling me he is traumatized.
After the phone call, I forwarded my S's text to my W. We had the following text conversation:
W: I get it jb. He saw OM's butt and knows he was hugging me...hes just embarrassed that he saw OM bottom on me. W: My brother walked in my parents a long time ago... jb: Your parents were married. That's where our S's head is right now, W. Please understand S is watching both of us right now. W: I know...he is and i understand...it wasnt supposed to happen like this...but he and i just talked for last thirty min. He really opened up and said hes been having some real anger issues and has for two yrs...
I didn't respond the last text. I picked up my S at 2:45 last night. We got home around 3:15.
My S and I talked on the way home. He was describing this anger issue. I think he's definitely going to need to see a C, and is likely overdue. I asked if the event last night caused him anger or he was more traumatized by it. He said it was more trauma than anger in that scenario.
Seriously, why do I want want to be married to this woman anymore?