Thank you so much, unbidden. I cannot believe how much my feelings have changed in the last three weeks.
My individual counselor made me think about that. When I was staying a friend's and he was angry, I said, FINE. I will tell you where I am so that you don't get angry at me. But she said to instead say, I will tell you where I am so you don't have to worry. Which is very different. That was a huge problem in our relationship and goes back to me being selfish.
