I've got NMMNG and I've begun to work through it but it is all happening at breakneck speed. DBing, drama triangles, NMMNG - these are things I never even knew existed until a month ago. Throw in the stress of the actual cause of the problem and I'm more than a bit frazzled at the moment! I did do the 5 languages questionnaire and got the following 5 Words of Affirmation 7 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 6 Acts of Service 10 Physical Touch
Which fits in nicely with the nice guy profile about being bad at receiving things. I'm going to order the 5 languages and HOTYN books asap too.