Thanks Truegritter, I have gotten a lot of good advice in the last few days and while some on it not easy to hear it has been very helpful.
I agree with you on the ring and I choose to wear it. One I am not done and don't intend to give up so easily. The next time I take it off it will be because I am ready to and basically done with this M.
I still feel like we are supposed to be together. She is so focused on the negatives in the past and I am a bit jaded in that I only remember how good we were together.
She has some things she needs to work on and I have a lot of my own issues to work on before that part has a chance at moving forward.

Again thank you and the others for jumping in and pointing the way. Not easy trying to find ones way through this nightmare.


M-45
W-44
2D - 11&13
2SS - 11&17
Married 10/10/10
Bomb 3/5/12
Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12
Back together 9/12
Seperated 6/13
Divorce Final 11/13/13