Trusting, You did get an apology, and if I were you I'd take some heart in that. Something is wrong w/your X. And I believe mine, too. And that deserves compassion.

But with that said, you can only allow someone to hurt you for so long, you know? It's possible he will shape up, but I concluded w/my X that it is more likely that he will flounder. I have pity, but I cannot fix the situations that frustrate him. And I just enabled him to flounder less, and he took advantage. He can keep the life he chose.

You do deserve happiness.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D