Don't worry, she has pointed out plenty of cringeworthy things and I'm certainly going to be working on them both in and out of IC! A lot of them have to do with me trying to be 'Mr Nice Guy' and then bottling everything up until I become extremely grumpy combined with self esteem problems. I look back on some of the ways I acted and really don't like what I see. As a result I want to change those things for myself not just for her.