Needing some guidance... 4

[reachingHigher]

jks, I woke up in the middle of the night and checked my phone to see how you were. I just was clueless as to what to suggest for you. I can't imagine how painful your sitch is. So I couldn't respond to you.

I like the "suggesting boundaries" idea.

It's hard to think to suggest to tell someone else to hold on a little while longer. Because it's not me gong through your pain.

But it seems like if your H is such a nice guy, having the draw of three sweet children and a knockout wife with such a strong and sweet personality, that one day he'll wake up and come back! After all, he fell in love with you once, right?

Maybe you shouldn't decide to file, while under the influence of the (perfectly understandable) anger. Maybe just try to let it go a little bit. Get back to your "happy place".

Are you able to take the kids to a new place this weekend? A new park? A new playground? A new museum? Something different?