Val, I don't read it that way. I believe what V is saying he's disrespecting her by being with the OW. It's not because of the OW but rather his choices. Replace OW with any other addiction, booze, pills, porn, sex.

When you reach your limit, you reach your limit.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss