Well STBXW was cake eating. She now has another OM who is younger but along the same lines as the last OM.

I finally had it with the pattern that keeps happening when she wants to be BFFs, only to find out that she is still flaunting affairs in public.

I addressed the issue last night with her and cut the cord. I told her that right now there has been too much hurt and I am tired of being used. She replied that she wanted to be friends for D1s sake. I replied that I don't think that it is good to have a friendship because of a 3rd party, but you should want to be friends because you want to be friends and you like the person, not use them. Her comment kept giving me the message that I am just the father of her child and that if D1 was not around, she would be gone with the wind.

I am sorry but I can not be friends with someone like that. I will be friendly and cordial, but that is it. It is time for me to move on. Maybe someday down the road this may be repaired but I am not holding my breath.

I am going as dim as I can now as I really don't want to talk with her any longer.
If this makes me an A-hole, then so be it.

Thank you all for your support. I don't know if I will post any longer but I will be lurking for sure.

You are welcome to bring on the 2x4s if they are warranted. I still have a lot to learn.


M:35
W:33
M: 5 yrs.
Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10
D Final: 8/7/12