You know, going away for the weekend isn't a bad idea. Is Monday a holiday for your D's school? I am taking my 3 kids plus my D8's friend to a resort up north.
Am planning to keep them busy in the pool, outside skating, sledding at the golf course and possibly ice-fishing.
Now obviously your climate doesn't allow for that, but you could take your DD to Six Flaggs if you don't want to go far... just you and D - a girl's weekend. I bet she would love it.
And I agree that you should bump that mental date in your head to the 17 or 18th.
Maybe the reason that noone answered the phone at your H's office is that it is closed. Didn't you say that the OW's daughters will be done soon too? Maybe the place is shut down.
Anyway, I'm praying for you as if everyone else. You are a strong, smart woman and you can get through this!
totite
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