There seems to be two camps in terms of intimacy with the WAS. One camp believes it keeps them hooked in, the other believes it is cake eating and a bad idea. I am of the latter opinion.
hi jess, i'm of the second camp. i read somewhere that men feel connected through sex and doing things together.
i think you can still do great DB'ing and still have an intimate, physical relationship with your H IF you want one. i don't see it as cake eating if you're eating the cake, too. and if it lets him feel closer to you, then so much the better.
you should still GAL, work on your areas that need improvement, be the best person you can be, do 180's, etc.
not all on here would agree but you really must analyze your own feelings on this and how it effects your sitch and your progress.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
