Thunderclouds gather in the distance

[sage]

What got me a bit upset is that when we finished talking, she was very positive I should get a divorce after this. This means that the three people who know what has happened these last three weeks are all telling me to forget it and go ahead with the D. They all had been previously very supportive of my DB efforts...

Midway thru my Piecing efforts a big fight/backslide happened...the only two people who were current in knowing about my sitch did the "well...I guess you gave it your all" thingy...luckily...I had the wonderful folks here on the BB to point me back in the DB direction...

I remember the feeling well...of feeling as though if THEY (my friends) were saying it was over then it must be true...but simply put...perhaps they just had just lasted longer than others but that didn't make them experts on my sitch or what I should do...

You know your sitch best.

Sage