The one person who really matters here is you. I'm sure that once you have some information and it's factual, you will be in the position to make some decisions for yourself.
And somehow I think you will make ones that are best for you, not your friends. You're a smart lady and not one to go off making irrational decisions based on evidence that is not factual.
You're a really good swimmer, even though you think you forget sometimes (where ARE your family?). Relax and just keep swimming. At some point, you're going to get the information you want and need.
Then cross that bridge...
Big hugs.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
