Hi Jess,
You are doing good, keep the focus on you and your d, you have a lot on your plate but you sound like you are very focused and organized.

Did your h ever say what the issues were?
Keep posting,

Me& h + S
M: 13 t: 14

H moved 2/12. Own apt 05/12, EAs, PAs, gfriends, oh my!
I'm done. 12/12

"I get knocked down, but I get up again.. you're never gonna keep me down" Chumbawumba