thanks so much for your advice jb - i didn't realize you looked at my thread.

do you advise the outline being from when the bomb was dropped or including the whole marriage and after the bomb drop.

there are so many things that h felt were were wrong when he dropped the bomb, that frankly i'm finding now that it influenced me so much that i have a hard time seeing a clear picture of it myself.

i'll go start on my outline and the list of things i want to ask her.

wish i could figure out a way to tape the phone conversation. anyone have suggestions on how to do that?

thanks again
zig


me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"