It's wonderful that we can pull the strength from somewhere when we have to!
I must "ditto" Dagny; I think you are one he// of a woman! And a great mom!
I think you need to set your mind on not seeing or hearing from your H until the 17th or 18th. Put yourself in his shoes (and who would want to) he is having a break down and he needs time to think. Away from everyone.
Keep going and pray for him, because hon, I think he needs all the help he can get!