The point is that your wife continues to not have any hardships based on her choices. You're paying for everything while she ran around with another guy. Your MIL pays for the mortgage, she really doesn't have to do anything.
If you are adamant about moving out, I would suggest you give her a date, so she knows she has to find a job by then. Then tell her that you will be cancelling her insurance but will keep the kids on yours. She's not your problem any more. And besides, you need the money for your rent.
Also, I would suggest that you talk to your kids. Ask them how they feel. Just because your W is rug-sweeping doesn't mean that you should too.
She needs that dose of reality.
MrBond, welcome back my friend. I'm under the impression that the physical contact with the W's BF has stopped but not for sure. W is watching the S7 & S12 while school is summer session. But at night while I'm at work I'm not sure whats going on.
I'm still searching for a place and W knows this. She is a little worried right now what is going to happen when I start supporting her.
I got the new job and they want me to start in two weeks! I need to open my own bank account now, I guess that should be the next task.
when I start supporting her I ment STOP supporting her
M44 / W43 Married 24 / Together 24.5 S12 S7 ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012 Counseling started 5-1-2012 Counseling ended 6-7-2012
